Anyway, was thinking about this topic few days ago... Biase laa bile lepak2 sorg2 tgk gamba2 lame and i felt its been a while since i last duduk lepak2 and have some ME TIME... life has some how been so hectic with work, study, family, husband, the kids etc. etc... and i was like, "no wonder people always say that life begins at 40"... it makes sense ape... why? i'll tell u why... (mind u this is only MY OPINION... this is what i think at this particular time... maybe lepas ni i'll change my mind... haha.. u'll never know rite...)
Life at 20s... (more like campus life)
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Well... this maybe the most enjoyable time for most of us.. biase laa.. no more SPM, no more parents to tell us what to do and what not to do... we are very much on our own at this time... as for me i think this can be considered as the most crucial time for us all... this is the time where we start to be more independent, this is the time where we determine what we want to be, this is the time that can make us or fail us... it really depends on how we manage ourself... yes we do enjoy ourself (sgt la kan... hahhaha) but still there are lectures to attend, assignments to be submitted, exams... we had fun the "student" way... lepak2 kedai mamak, movies, bowling... kesimpulannye nothing fancy... shoping pon biase2 jelah.. student mane ade duit nk shoping lebih2 (unless your parents give u monthly allowance of RM2000 a month lain la kannn...heeee)... kesimpulannye campus life enjoyable but not that much money to spend...haha
Life at 30s....
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At 30s most of us are busy juggling... hahahhaha... (nmpak sgt i really2 need to improve my writing skills...that's the main purpose of this blog anyway...) for me rite now, its juggling between my study, family, my kids, works bla bla bla.... i should say this is the most hectic time for most of us... with lots and lots and lots of work at the office, the kids are still very2 young.... there are times when we have to choose between our family and work... and i can say that we can hardly have some ME time... sometimes we dont even have the time to socialize anymore.... our life revolves more around our family and job... money wise, we may have some to spend (tkde la kopak sgt mcm mase zaman student dulu) but for us mothers, we LOVESSSS to spend our money on the kids more... tak tau lah kenape... huhuhu... plus we dont have much leisure time hence our preferred shopping methods are online... kesimpulannye, life at 30s, got some money, but not much time to really enjoy it..
Life at 40s...
Haaaaa.... since i'm not in that category yet, i would visualize my life at 40s would be more relax... the kids are much bigger now and can take care of themselves... (even if we still have some small kids, kakak2 and abg2 boleh la tlg jage)... our job are much more stable (ade bnyk junior2 yg boleh di buli... hahahhaha...) and the most important thing is we have much more money to spend and more time to socialize ... (hopefully... hahahhahahaa... life is all about the money rite???) hahahahhaha... and we can have more time to spend on ourself.. usually mase umor2 mcm ni mesti ramai yg buat gath kn...
hmmm... started to feel that my rambling is not making any sense now... sebenarnye dh ngantuk nk tdo... hahahhahaa... i better stop now before my rambling become worth and ... (dah tak tau nk tulis ape... my brain has stop functioning... )
till then... daaaaa....
ler..sama layout plk. ngahahaa :D
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